Why is it that so many people believe they know what is best
for another and then try to ‘control’ that person by way of manipulation or guilt.
This is, in fact, abusive behaviour!
Many marriages and relationships operate this way. Many
attempt to control others as a way to ensure their own happiness. Does this
work? No, it undermines the
relationship, it is hurtful and it destroys trust! Controlling behaviour in any relationship
whether it is in a marriage, a parent/child relationship or with a work
colleague can create havoc in people’s lives.
Today many people are feeling unhappy and can often feel
like something is ‘missing’ in their lives.
Could it be that what is missing is Respect? What if we tried restoring the importance of
RESPECT in all our relationships? Try to
keep in mind that if we want to be respected by our partner or our children, we
need to give that respect to them! We do
not demand it, nor do we earn it and we certainly do not place conditions on
Respect…….we ‘model’ Respect by being Respectful!
Experts have many remedies for improving relationships or
parenting and yet the solution is so simple….Restoring the importance of
Respect is the answer. ‘It begins with
us’
Cheers
Lyn and Vicki
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